Sunday, January 26, 2025

Chester

My father departed in the wee, small hours today. He walked the earth for 94 years and 8 months and 'glided to a stop', as my brother so aptly put it. My brother and my sister were with him. 
My father passed the way most of us would like to, peacefully, family near, surrounded with love.
He was a complex guy not always easy to be with, still, my heart breaks when I think of him. Upon reflection, he'd probably say the same of me.

It's been a quiet morning. 
I've been listening to a playlist of music he liked and polishing up some poetry, I've included one below.

I'm going to walk the dogs now.

Heavy Weather Sailing

The storm endured for 94 years.

She deftly navigated the wind and waves,

Surviving in the eye for nearly nine decades.

Sailing to exotic ports of call,

Away from the boom & bluster.

Fixing her position by

Sparkling stars and summer sun,

All while providing a lee for her crew.

But the rarely relenting vigor

Of the gale wore her down.

Her compass, charts, and sextant,

Swept away by seas,

Her sails in tatters, helm untended,

Flotsam/jetsam in her wake,

She drifted, alone on the briny deep.

But not before showing her crew

The easy way and balmy breezes

Of the tropics.

 

The storm endured for 94 years.

She trained her crew well,

Preparing them for their own voyages.

They jumped ship, one at a time,

Departing for ports of their own,

Finding their own gentle navigators.

Some dropped anchor a few hundred miles from the eye,

Sharing hard-won knowledge with others.

One sought refuge on the far side of the world,

On white sands with sweet citrus and tree ferns.

Another found the sheltered shores

Of the Salish Sea, away from the fury,

With a navigator, positive & patient,

Kind & caring, brimming with love,

Showing that not every voyage

Charts a course through heavy weather.

 

The storm endured for 94 years.

Like the great red spot on Jupiter,

He scoured the planet,

Devouring conflict

Like a Michelin starred meal,

Because being right

Brought more than being happy.

His days were councils & committees,

Rarely resting, constant motion,

As another task awaited.

Occasionally, the mistral abated,

Never the Horse Latitudes,

As mackerel skies and mare’s tails

Always loomed on the horizon,

But the wind let go, with the sun

Filling cracks in the clouds,

Like caulking between planks.

He joked with friends, sang in the choir,

Shared his wisdom, helped as needed,

Sailed, fished, hunted

And played cribbage.

And He cried as each of the crew departed.

It was his brand of love, but love, nonetheless.

The squalls and squabbles have dissipated,

No longer filling sails,

While the abiding chaos of navigating shoal water

And confused seas have taken their toll,

His work is done.

He is underway to Snug Harbor.

May he rest his oars at last,

And know the solace

Of fair winds and following seas,

And that his crew loved him,

His brand of love, but love, nonetheless.



26 Jan 25 John F Fossett  Marginal Effort Publishing